…e of whether he’s alive or if he’s passed away. I have no closure of what may have happened to him. Was I right to choose myself over his needs?My Father Was Arrested for Living in an Airport Terminal2.1K14Erika Anne SauterJack HerlockerSep 12, 2017·1 min readYes. Because you didn’t just choose yourself, you chose your family. Feel some regret at times, feel there are things you might have done differently, but never feel you did the wrong thing.