Will there be cake this year, Emma? (Just a curiosity question. Not inviting myself, or anything.) Somebody must have created a trans-appropriate cake-thing by now.
Or something you could present as a traditional nut cake, then wait for someone to finish their piece so they can inform you, “This cake has no nuts!” And you smile and say, “That’s the whole point, dear.” 😁
I’m sure somebody has come up with something more clever. 😉
Happy birthday, Emma! 🎂