True for wife #1, not true for current wife.
Also, this seems to be one of those topics (based on discussions with friends and coworkers) that does NOT elicit a reaction of, “Y’know, I could go either way on this.” It’s either, “I like lingerie. Actually, I am wearing something lacy and sexy now.” (From a woman in a dark business suit.) Or, “Lingerie is a fascist product of the patriarchy and should all be burned.”