This was delightful to read, Kim, both because it made me happy for my first wife (and her wife — they also met late in life) post-menopause, and because it reflects what my current wife (straight!) has gone through post-menopause. Her libido crashed, which would be bad in some marriages but worked out for me. My sex drive is low enough that I'm debating whether I'm ace, and I delight in just cuddling and kissing and touching. My wife has told me that this is enough for her, these days, but I worry that she's just being overly accommodating to me. Thank you for your perspective.