Thank you, Randy! My sister is starting to work with their doctor; she has made progress via their lawyer, in fits and starts (never knowing from one visit to the next whether our parents will be “We don’t need that!” or “Sure, no problem, where do I sign?”). And I’ve been letting her lead, because getting involved makes me crazy (the curl-up-in-a-ball-on-the-floor kind of crazy that upsets my wife).