See, the more I read about Rob, the better he sounds! :-)

Actually… that extends to a lot of your writing about him. Even when there are situations in your memoirs where he Behaved Badly, you don’t make him come off as a total putz. He meant well; or he was momentarily stupid but felt incredibly bad about it afterwards; or you did something to egg him on; or there was some other perfectly good reason that yes, Rob may not have been having a shining moment right at that instant, but seriously he’s a good guy.

So either you’re a wimpy enabler, or you are Totally, Seriously, Madly, Terminally In Love With Your Husband. Hmmm…