Natalie, have you checked out Molly Martin (https://medium.com/@tradeswomn) on Medium? She's a delight — an older (about my age <cough>) lesbian who fought the good fight working in the trades in the San Francisco Bay area in the 70s, 80s, and 90s. She talks about how (in her working outfits) jerks would drive by and yell "Outa the way, fa**ot!" and she'd yell back, "I'm a dyke, you a**hole!" 🤣

My ex-wife was very fem in her 30s and still looks wonderful in her current years (her wife says I'm biased — might be something to it 😉).

Gay women have a good range, is what I'm trying to get at. 💚