If you had asked me in the 1990s if things would be much better for women in tech by the 2020s, I'd have said, "Of course!" (With a certain "can't get no worse!" undertone.)
Sounds like you're telling me that at best it's a "Sucks less... kinda... most days..." status, Victoria. 😡
[I had a nice paragraph going on why we need women in tech, realized I was mansplaining to the choir, so I'll just end with "Thank you for hanging in there, Victoria!"]