If you drop in unexpectedly, we can probably take care of you with stuff we have at hand. Sounds like our tastes are similar.
My ex-wife is a certified sommelier (I suspect that was the word you were looking for) who appreciates the good stuff. Love her dearly, but she went to a tasting where she paid more for an OUNCE of 40-year-old French wine than Deb & I would pay for a case. But she can appreciate it and afford it, so more power to her (my ex is pretty awesome).