I went to the archive and *BING*! Two of my favorites in the first five:

https://medium.com/prismnpen/a-trans-girl-approached-me-in-the-ladies-bathroom-and-it-bothered-me-abc0f2d021ba

https://medium.com/prismnpen/why-i-dont-believe-trans-women-are-women-like-me-c9a59c28bdc3

Third one took more time, but:

https://medium.com/prismnpen/calling-all-lgbtq-allies-friends-please-wear-a-pin-for-us-its-time-2c232047bfbe

The first two are delightful approaches to looking at trans women (our trans niece especially liked the first one) and the third one resulted in me and my wife Deb wearing LGBTQ+ flag pins when we go out.