Good luck, Mary, and a {*{*{*hug*}*}*} for what you’re going through. 💚
We had to steal my father’s car because he refused to believe he couldn’t drive, even after minor accidents and two failed tests (the second one ended halfway through, because the tester was too scared to let him drive on the open road). We had help from multiple sources (including local cops) and all of them had stories of parents/relatives/friends who should have had their keys taken before Something Really Bad happened.