Gallbladders suck.

We were VERY lucky that the quality of health care is still decent in our area, and Deb's mysterious ailments were diagnosed as gallbladder before she got to your stage. (I was under this growing fear that she had cancer, the thing that killed half the women in her family over the generations. https://medium.com/the-junction/its-okay-e04c85f80dae )

I am so sorry you have to be going through this, dear Dennett! Both you and Ben. 💚💚💚 & {*{*{*hugs*}*}*} to you both!