I should communicate more, except for the times when I tried to tell what was going on in my life, and to express how I felt about it, only to be interrupted with a bombarding of suggestions as to how I should have handled a situation, and an assessment of everything else I’d done wrong up to that point.
FWIW, Renata, I was in a relationship with a woman where our roles were the same as you describe, only reversed — she was always telling me I needed to communicate “better,” and then she’d tell me how I was doing it wrong. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Later I met this nice person; she talked and I listened, I talked and she listened, we talked and we listened, neither talked and we listened. It worked pretty well. (Okay, only twenty years so far, but the momentum seems to be good.)
Anyway, hang in there, somebody will think you are perfect the way you are and the way you talk!