First! {*{*{*hug*}*}*}

Second, Ellie, I've known women who thought they were bi and later decided, eh, not so much (I was married to one, who realized nope, she's a lesbian, and now has the wife to prove it). I've known women who were bi, period, and they didn’t have doubts about it. You sound like you've taken your time and got yourself figured out.

Third, you must, I'm sure, know about people on Medium who can listen, share, and suggest as needed. Tre L. Loadholt comes to mind right off the bat. (Tre is awesome, btw.)

Last, you haven’t mentioned talking to your family. I’m guessing this is a topic for another article? I can throw in that for most people who come out to close family, it’s not as bad as they fear (thinking of Tre and my ex-wife) but this is SUCH a Your Mileage May Vary area! Good luck if you haven’t made the leap yet, and fingers crossed.

VERY last: {*{*{*H*U*G*S*}*}*} and 💚💚💚! You rock, dear lady!

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