Everybody needs a hobby, Annie. And this is why your voice in my head when I read your responses is remarkably like Cousin Patty’s (actually Deb’s cousin) — a sweet, wonderful, obstinate, cantankerous soul who loves to razz me. “Y’know I wouldn’t do it if’n I didn’t luv ya, right, cuz?” Actually, having seen the quiet, polite person she becomes when she’s with people she doesn’t like, I *do* know.