EVERYBODY deserves such kind, encouraging words.
If the voices in your head aren’t helpful, you need to work on new voices. Which, I realize, sounds somewhat flip, but it actually works:
BTW, your “Loser” tag might be misconstrued. A casual reader might think you mean you are a loser, when of course the loser is the piece of shit you left in the courtroom. You, dear lady, are not now, nor have you been, a loser. (And I hear an “AMEN!” from one of the voices in my head.)