Deb went through this (not the broccoli, but the mental abuse) with her previous husband. She divorced him in 1990, he died in 1995, and yet she still thanks me for things that would just be common courtesy from a friend, never mind a loving spouse. But she remembers what it was like living with someone who denied her basic bits of decency, just to show he could.

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Husband & retiree. Developer, tech writer, & IT geek. I fill what’s empty, empty what’s full, and scratch where it itches. Occasionally do weird & goofy things.

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