Deb loved going to New Hope in the ‘80s & ’90s with her first husband, while they were married and then later when they were back to being friends. They also went on other trips, including Toronto not long after I joined the company where Deb worked.

Benefits of a gay ex — travel is easier because sharing a room isn’t awkward. Unless you have to explain it to this new guy you met at work. 😉 Although in my case, I just went, “Oh, your ex is gay. Huh. Small world.” And I told her about Linda. 😁