Deb & I talked about this. We decided we'd be fine if we'd never met. Deb would be missing not being with her family more (and would probably add one or more of her family groups to her "bubble"), and I'd be spending more time on Medium or whatever virtual community I'd be on in that timeline, but we'd be good. Good enough.
NOW, of course, if we got separated for some reason, we'd be basket cases. Well, I would be, anyway.