Deb and I put all our cards on the table before we “got serious” about our relationship (depression, anxiety disorder, suicide attempt, nonfunctional relationships, voices in my head — though I added voices since I met her — and that’s just my side) and we haven’t had any (well, many) surprises in the 17 years since. Only way to approach a serious relationship, IMHO.

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Husband & retiree. Developer, tech writer, & IT geek. I fill what’s empty, empty what’s full, and scratch where it itches. Occasionally do weird & goofy things.

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