As the husband of a buxom woman, I don't exactly feel your pain, Toni, but I know where you're coming from. My wife refers to "bralettes" as "bras for women who don't actually need bras." She sneers at sports bras as totally inadequate for REAL boobs. Yet she refuses to pay $75+ for personally fitted bras. And she doesn't feel comfortable going braless at home unless she's lying down (just in bed, iow). <sigh>