#1 fits in with other incidents you’ve described, all of which make regard your husband with the greatest respect and sympathy. (You told him, right?… Hello? LM?…)
#3 is totally batsh*t crazy. Gotta be true.
#2 would be MOSTLY true, except you didn’t actually run (twice) over your daughter. But your mind would have replayed the possibility over & over, because you’re a mom. Still counter-factual, however.